No time to take off your shoes or pants? No problem. When you gotta-have your girlfriend right this very second but you are both strapped for time or in a location that doesn’t lend to a long, intimate encounter, you need to pull a quickie out of your sexual toolkit.
“A ‘quickie’ is fast and hot sex that you both enjoy when you don’t have the time for a lot of foreplay and leisurely lovemaking. Of all the ways to have sex, quickies at times can be one of the most exciting,” sexpert Coleen Singer says. “This is a spontaneous, fast romp when you are supposed to be doing something else!”
While quickies might not produce those mind-numbing and toe-curling orgasms that make you feel like a sexual warrior - especially when you hear her moan - the intensity of the experience has a way of inducing a bit of naughtiness into your relationship, which in return, makes you feel like partners-in-crime. Though sex experts wouldn’t recommend a quickie as the type of sex you always have, once-in-a-while it can be incredibly hot and rewarding both sexually and for your relationship. “it is sometimes simply more exciting when sex is unexpected and full of heat. Planning too much into your quick sex encounter is only going to get in the way of letting your passions run wild in the moment. Let it happen when and how it happens,” Singer says.(sex advice)
So while you can’t plan a quickie (or it would defeat it is purpose) - if you want to make sure you are in the right places where a quickie is easier to get started, here’s where to venture:
1. In Your Bed:
You already know that you're raring to go first-thing in the morning, but your girlfriend may admit to preferring nighttime play. It is part of the (many) ways that men and women differ, but for some quickie action, the early hours of the a.m. are primetime to get it on. “Many couples avoid morning sex for various valid reasons: Morning breath, afraid they’ll be late for work, and just ‘not a morning person,’” Singer says. “Those people may be missing out.” Why’s that? you are always going to be as hard as you will ever be when you first wake up, due to your anatomy, you are both nearly naked and it’ll energize you both for the whole day. Win, win, OH, win!
2. On Your Break:
If you and your girlfriend are lucky enough to work within a simple commute to your home, block off an hour-and-a-half lunch one day and meet back home to have sex quickly before heading to your afternoon meetings and deadlines. The thrill of having a time limit will make both of you work harder to make one another finish and if you can do it, you can add up the kink factor by not saying one word to one another. This makes it feel even more erotic because the thing you want more than anything else is one another’s bodies.
3. In Your Car:
You might have last had sex in a car when you were in high school and didn’t want your parents to find out you were sexually active, but these days, it could take on a much hotter meaning. And for that reason alone: it’ll remind you of the thrill of the first times you were having intercourse and how forbidden it felt. Find a secluded place to park your car, but in a safe area, and have her climb on top of you. Even better: ask her not to wear underwear and sport a skirt to make it as seamless as possible.
4. On A Hike:
You already know that exercise is essential to maintain your sexual endurance and your overall physical health, but why not incorporate working up a sweat into working up an orgasm, too? When the weather is nice and you and your gal head out to tackle some trails, find a spot that’s not as frequented by fellow hikers and go for it. Your best option for this is doggy style or with her against a tree and her legs wrapped around you. You probably won’t be able to figure out which view is better - her bouncing breasts or the mountaintops.
5. At A Party:
Ask any couple who has been together for quite some time and after blushing, they probably would admit to having sex in many of their friends’ (and even their family’s!) home. After a few glasses of toxic rum punch, you both might feel brave enough to find a guest room, lock the door and have at it. Just try to keep as quiet as possible so your best buddy (or her bestie) don’t hear you getting to it. The sexiest part might actually come after the bang, when you see her from across the room and know you are the reason her cheeks are flushed.
6. At The Office:
If you have a lock on your door (or she does in her office), this makes for an easy romp. Get to know the schedule of the cleaning crew at night and plan a time when no one is around. If you have security cameras in your office, throw a coat or scarf over them so you won’t be caught on film. For a very hot experience, try some work-based role play with your sex: She can come in and act like a client, until you bend her over the desk and make her yours; or she can be your powerful boss and you can be her subservient assistant. Whatever you two are into!
7. On Vacation:
If you've heard that vacation sex is a thing, believe it. When you're away from your day-to-day stresses and not worried about what’s going on at work, you'll both feel friskier and more in the mood to play with one another. Before you pack your bags, make a list that’s different than what you will bring along: a quickie bucket list. Maybe you want to have sex in a cabana bed. Or on the beach. Or maybe in a cafe in Paris or in a taxi cab in New York. Wherever you go, come up with the must-bang list together and you will both be giddy with anticipation of checking it off.
8. At A Bar:
As you scope out where you are going to do this, make sure to keep a few things in mind: you need a private bathroom with a lock, a place that doesn’t have terribly long lines where many people will be waiting and with loud enough music to muffle your moans. To add another layer of naughty and sexiness to this, Singer suggests making it into a role-playing evening, too. “Meet at a local club at a specific time and pretend not to know each other,” she says. “Seduction ensues and when the passion begins to flow, you take it out of the bathroom or to wherever you can have fast and dirty sex.”
9. In The Kitchen:
The next time your girlfriend is cooking or you are preparing a meal together, reach around her and turn of the eye to the stove. Yep, it's time for some good, old fashioned kitchen sex. She may raise an eyebrow to you, wondering what’s going to happen to your stir-fry, but pick her up, pull off what she’s wearing and go at it. While you probably want to stay away from anything spicy — it could be potentially painful for the private areas of everyone involved — the sensation of food itself is seductive on it is own. Though it is a quickie, and thus, meant to be fast - have fun throughout the kitchen: the countertops, the kitchen table, wherever the mood strikes you. In the many dinners you will have together in the years to come, you might be able to think back on those happy romps and recreate them when you start to feel stuck in a rut. Might we suggest making your dessert time a true sweet affair with some whipped cream, chocolate sauce… and a nice shower afterwards.
10. In A Stairwell:
In most large buildings — including your apartment building — there’s less foot traffic near the top. Most people won’t take the stairs up dozens of flights of stairs, so they make for a great location to get it on. For this one, Singer suggests a doggy style position to avoid contracting any bacteria from the ground, and to wear loose clothing. “The last thing you need to do is waste time getting undressed, or getting dressed if you get yelled at by security that spotted you having sex in the office building stairwell,” she says.
11. At The Airport:
For those who are risky and up for a little challenge, an airport is super-sexy way to have a quickie. You can consider a few places for it: the family restroom that has a private lock, behind one of the many hidden corridors that don’t allow for customers to pass through or on the plane itself when you are up in the air and interested in joining the mile high club. Whatever you do, make it your fastest move yet, because there’s a big change you could get caught!