1/04/2017

"Sex tips" 7 Ways To Enhance The Male Orgasm

Sex tips 7 Ways To Enhance The Male Orgasm
You know for your girlfriend, there’s a difference between the big, powerful, intense orgasms and the smaller ones, that are more frequent. And while you might enjoy deciphering between the two (and aiming for the former!) — have you considered the different levels of pleasure that you might experience, too? Male and female orgasms engage varying parts of your body, but one doesn’t outweigh the other, in every respect, experts say.

“The difference between male and female orgasm itself is that with women, orgasm is produced by direct stimulation of the clitoris or G-spot, felt and described as waves of pleasure throughout the body, and a series of contractions that are felt through the uterus, anus, cervix, and genitals at 0.8 seconds apart. It takes the average women about 15 to 20 minutes to orgasm,” says licensed marriage and family therapist Marissa Nelson.

“Male orgasm involves contractions of the PC muscles, anal, perineum and penis, and the feeling of pumping and/or throbbing, takes the average man three to five minutes to achieve orgasm and the sensation of ejaculation can heighten orgasm. Important to remember that ejaculation and orgasm are two separate events, as a guy can have an orgasm without ejaculating.”(sex advice)

So how do you enhance the male orgasm to be even better for you? Here are some tricks and tips from those who know best:

1. Breathe More:

Most people — men and women alike — have a tendency to hold their breath while they’re orgasming. It makes the release (of the orgasm and your breath) feel a little more intense, or so it seems. In actuality, if you can learn how to control your breath and focus on it, you’ll experience heightened, more intense sensations. “Holding your breath stops the depth and intensity of orgasm that can be enhanced and even magnified through breathing slowly and deeply. As soon as you feel yourself climaxing, remember to take a deep breath from the belly and inhale deeply to the count of four and exhale slowly out the mouth to the count of four, and let your breath ride through the wave of orgasm,” Nelson says. “This breath work will help expand the feelings of orgasm and circulate that satisfaction throughout the entire body.”

2. Don’t Be Afraid Of Trying Things:

You may be a little shy and hesitant to let your girl go for some backdoor play, but Nelson says opening your boundaries and limits may strengthen your orgasm even more. “It’s not just about stroking the penis, it’s about building arousal and pleasure sensation. You and your partner can start by touching, licking, biting the nipples, thighs, belly, and the entire penis, from the base, up to the shaft and tip, the perineum and scrotum,” she notes. “This helps to expand the boundaries or routine of sex to include new and blended level of bliss.”

3. Stop And Start Again:

“Men can sometimes go from erection to ejaculation really quickly and rush through it,” Nelson says. “But it’s important to slow down and pay attention to their arousal and sexual energy.” How do you do that? She suggested tuning into each of the sensations you are feeling and don’t give into feeling ahem, horny, while you’re still working on getting turned on. “Try prolonging the feeling of arousal and masturbate or thrust until you feel the sexual energy build and then stop. Start to squeeze the tip or base of the penis until you feel the urge to come subside,” Nelson says. “Try this method three to four times while self-pleasuring or during sex as this will increase and sustain that delicious feeling of pleasure, and overall sexual stamina.”

4. Get Creative With Masturbation:

Alright, alright so you know the stroke dance that works for you and you can likely get yourself off in less than a minute if you want to — but that won’t make your sex life with your partner better. In fact, it could make it worse for her and for you. Sienna Sinclaire, sex expert says when you masturbate, you should always be innovative. “There are cock rings that have attachments that will vibrate on the balls leaving his hands free to do other things,” she says. “Or you can try a ball stretcher. Sounds scary than it is and usually found in the fetish departments. But the thing is you can attach this device to your balls with as many weights as you want and it will pull your balls for you while you work your cock.”

5. Get Out Of Your Mind:

Both Sinclaire and Nelson say the key with male orgasm is to let yourself go with the moment, and if you find your mind trailing off, you won’t always get the best experience with your orgasms as you could. While you might be able to ‘finish’ - so to say, if you’re really looking for an explosive experience that takes you (and your partner) to the next level, exploring toys like the ones below might be the ticket that opens your mind and your sexual liberties to a place you’ve never been before:

6. Penis Pump:

“A lot of men have trouble with maintaining erections, or they're just not happy with the size of it. Penis pumps are a great way of literally pumping yourself up before sex, and when used in conjunction with a cock ring, they can make you last way longer than you normally would,” Sinclaire says.

7. Prostate Massagers:

“Prostate massagers are fantastic sex toys for guys and will become an integral part of your toy box. They come in different thicknesses, but most of them are usually thin with a bulbous end purposely designed to slip easily inside your anus and stimulate your prostate. They're slick, lightweight and easy to look after, and offer the most intense orgasms,” Sinclaire says.


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